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Looking for female friend to go for a guinisson beach

Smile  Hello. I am 25, white, 5'9'', slim, looking for FEMALE to go this weekend to guinisson beach. Age, status, race, doesn't matter. Live in Elizabeth NJ and can lift there. Thank you

My wife and I went a couple

My wife and I went a couple times this summer and enjoyed it very much, we wanted to capture it by taking a couple picture of ourselves on the beach together is this ok to do? Thanks in advance .

If any woman is willing to

If any woman is willing to today around 4 please message for priv

Wife and I will possibly make

Wife and I will possibly make it on Sunday

LivingLife1968's picture

Well not one to get into any

Well not one to get into any policing of the sight and maybe just tired of the single guys using the site as a dating sight and thinking that any woman that is at the beach alone or with another guy is fair game. Just had a few bad apples. Oh and guys if your going get naked or get lost.
Anyone that wants to come say hi or sit with us feel free to.

No tan lines for 20 years

get naked or get lost

Very true. Too many clothed men have started coming and loitering in the nude sections. I tell many of them why they come to a nude beach and not be nude. I wish other nudists would do the same.

StormRunner's picture

Get naked or get lost???

WTF???  

Cool   IRIE

get naked or get lost

Very true. Too many clothed men have started coming and loitering in the nude sections. I tell many of them why they come to a nude beach and not be nude. I wish other nudists would do the same. These men alone or in groups and park themselves right in the nude sections

I actually say the same thing

I actually say the same thing to women with their bottoms on. If you're at a nude beach, get your bottoms off. Topless is not nude. My GF has no problem taking her bottoms off and doesn't understand the women who don't so it's not just guy thing or perspective. When my GF and I told one lady she should take her bottoms off she said she was still easing into the lifestyle. Not an excuse but to each her own. Just looks ridiculous

StormRunner's picture

Interesting ...

Some of what you say would actually carry some merit if, in fact, Gunnison was a nude beach.  It's not.  It is a clothing optional beach where everyone should be allowed to feel comfortable in whatever state of dress or undress they desire.  And "easing into the lifestyle" isn't good enough for you??  How about you keep your opinions to yourself?  Now there's an idea ...

 

Cool   IRIE

Blondie's picture

I do keep my bottoms on

I do keep my bottoms on sometimes. The good thing about gunny is all the people who are not judge mental. It's a personal decision and sometime I just feel like leaving them on. Don't you EVER tell me to get lost.

Blondie

StormRunner's picture

Personally ...

Personally .. I think you rock the topless look!!  Cool

 

Cool   IRIE

Blondie's picture

Ahhhh thank you!

Ahhhh thank you!

Blondie

LivingLife1968's picture

Missed you today

Missed you today

No tan lines for 20 years

Blondie's picture

I was there yesterday. We

I was there yesterday. We were looking all day for your flag.

Blondie

LivingLife1968's picture

Only had 2 hours so I was on

Only had 2 hours so I was on the motorcycle

No tan lines for 20 years

The thing that weirds me out

The thing that weirds me out the most is the number of women who still keep on their bottoms. Seriously ladies!! Get naked or get lost. It works both ways. If a lady has her bottoms on and is with a guy it's clear she was forced to go.

Anyway, be safe. A couple was arrested last week for having too much to drink. So be careful

sunbum47's picture

Ignore

Sad that we feel need to even address the comment. I stayed away from this site because of the crazy judgemental comments. How can one logically equate bottoms with being forced to come to the beach. What a strange leap. Basix said it best clothing is optional both sexes and if it bothers you, maybe look onternally

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

sunbum47's picture

an Idea, just my thought

Lets make a concerted effort to ignore the silly comments posted on the site. When we respond, as I did, we give some simblance of legitimacy to the judgemental posts and it keeps the conversation going. It is useless to have logical exchanges with illogical thinking. I especially championed women , who were reduced to perceived victims, forced to come to rhe beach because the post defied all logical thinking and says sooo much more about thr writer than anyone with free will decides what is their comfort level, not the crazed expectations of some ill-conceived lack of thought posted. Also, I am a proud, strong, independent thinking woman. Being entitled to ones oponion does come with some level of responsibility. I will not give any more of the silly rederict any attention. Maybe if we ignore it, the message will be the loudest silence ever heard and the threads will be saved for the good stuff. 

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

BeachLovers's picture

That is totally inaccurate.

That is totally inaccurate. Some women are comfortable being topless but not bottomless.  There are no other options to even be topless on the beach in New Jersey. My wife has gone with me, on her own will and it being her idea to go, and sometimes shes only topless, sometimes shes fully nude.  Sometimes, creepy guys just stare at them and it makes them very uncomfortable to be fully exposed and being gawked at.  Sometimes, they just feel uncomfortable being bottomless in general, or sometimes they are on their period and dont want the string showing....

LivingLife1968's picture

Yea women have more reasons

Yea women have more reasons to have bottoms on my gf had them on today as she had personal reasons for it. Bout wouldn't she or me ever walk around the beach in street cloths fuck no.

No tan lines for 20 years

What!?

I stand by what I said, and my gf and I are laughing at the responses as they totally prove our point. Talk about illogical. Lovinglife was the first to say people should get naked or get lost at Gunnison, and then turns around and writes his gf had her bottoms on today. Wtf?! So I'll be the first to tell your gf to get lost then. To be perfectly candid, she sounds like the type of exploited woman I'm talking about.

We're just trying to make sure Gunnison is a safe and friendly environment, but when women are forced to engage in activities for the sake of their husbands, that is scary and a reason why this place should be closely monitored.

I'm not trying to stir the pot, but think about what I'm saying. You have women with their clothes on (or bottoms on) going to a nude beach, looking miserable for the sake of their husbands. That doesn't concern anyone? Really? That's not exploitation? Wow! This is the sort of shit that makes us want to contact the Interior Department to keep an eye on Gunnison. I love this beach, but it is the attitudes that concern me

Topless only

Wife is still deciding to come with me to Gunnison and she told me that she might try the first time topless only. 

It just looks weird to me

It just looks weird to me when women are wearing their bottoms. My response was into the poster who felt disturbed about single guys having on their bottoms. Actually, guys, if you go alone, it is BEST to keep your bottoms on.
I just think that women who keep their bottoms on, especially if the husband or BF is nude, look like they are being dragged there. It's a sort of exploitation. I at least look at them as being exploited. And any girl who is there alone with her bottoms on looks like she's there just to check guys out in my opinion. I could be wrong but calling it the way I see it

I hear you on women having their periods, but who cares. It's a freaking nude beach. Women should get over it or stay home. Being topless is not nude. Get with the program

Just one man's opinion, but my GF feels the same way. We might be there tomorrow. Might put up a Jets flag. We'll see

Basix's picture

Here's a "get over it" for YOU

Gunnison is clothing optional for everyone at all times, and THAT IS IT. Whether you like it or whether you don't, that's it. Nothing you say will ever change it. You can stew over it all you like, as unreasonably as you like, and you'll achieve one thing only: to sound like a malcontented neurotic.

Dude, I was just responded to

Dude, I was just responded to the initial post. Of course it's clothing optional. I was just saying it looks ridiculous when some women leave on their bottoms. NOBODY is questioning the rights of anyone to keep his or her bottoms on. I was just saying my gf and I think it looks ridiculous, but that's just a "feeling" we BOTH have.

Your totally entitled to your

Your totally entitled to your opinion but maybe try to be a little more understanding as to why a woman wants to leave her bottom on.  You came off a little strong and it might turn some people off who may be reading this and thinking about checking out the beach. It may take some people a little longer to "ease" into it.  Also, there are guys that actually find thong tan lines or bottom tan lines very sexy - you may not, but others may and perhaps they're working on that? 

Fair enough, but the entire

Fair enough, but the entire chain started with a post regarding guys who keep their bottoms on. I just said I think it's best if guys who go alone do keep their bottoms on as they are less threatening. I hope most single guys would follow that but they have a right to do what they want, so it's within their right to be fully nude

At the same time, it seems logical that couples who go to a clothing optional beach together for a shared experience would both be fully nude. Anything asymmetrical (a woman with her bottoms on) might give the impression that one of the two was forced and is being exploited. It was actually my GF who first mentioned this and she feels sorry for these women (feminist that she is I guess). Do I think a lot of these women with their bottoms on are being unreasonably forced to go to satisfy their husbands? Absolutely I do, but they are adults and can choose to stay in the relationship or not.

I didn't mean to stir the pot, but it's a good discussion to have. And yes, I suppose it may take guys and girls to ease into something like this.

StormRunner's picture

Can't follow ...

Can't follow this clown's logic.  Oh wait ... that could be because there is none to follow.  Single guys should keep bottoms on to be less threatening??  Admits to it being a clothing optional beach .. yet feels everyone should be nude.  Women wearing bottoms while their husbands are nude are being forced to be there??  Can't make this shit up!!!

Just don't get it ...

Cool   IRIE

LivingLife1968's picture

WOW WTF no logic at all. Good

WOW WTF no logic at all. Good way to chase anyone away that he would be around.

No tan lines for 20 years

ChrisB's picture

All I care about is that

All I care about is that people keep our beach clean, obey the park regulations and are respectful of others. You can wear a burkini, nothing at all or anything in between.

I go to the beach to have a good time, not to judge people's looks or attire.

LivingLife1968's picture

AMEN Now back to having a

AMEN

Now back to having a good time
Don't forget to
Pick up after your self

No tan lines for 20 years

My wife and I have things in

My wife and I have things in common and also many differences.  We certainly wouldn't base our entire relationship on going to a nude beach.  If my wife decides to go and to keep her bottoms on that will be something she does by her choice alone.  I am not unreasonably forcing her to satisfy me.  I've been there alone because she chooses not to go.  She's fine with me going and I'm fine going alone but I would love for her to join me.  But when she's ready.  Your logic is a bit flawed.  By your words I should be looking to divorce my wife! lol  Trust me, if I was forcing her or trying to exploit her in any way she would divorce me.  She's a strong confident woman who makes up her own mind so please tell your GF not feel sorry for her (or any other woman) if she happens to see us there in an asymmetrical state.

Topless only

Exactly! Please don't scare my wife off!

Sorry

As soon as I posted my comment I realized I sounded wrong.  I was just too busy with chores to add something until now.  I did not and do not have a problem with a single guy going with a female.  I did not really have a problem with he_9019 despite what I said.  I was just advising that sometime explaining in the post why a female would be better companion than male is just nicer instead of writing FEMALE (in caps) is just the right thing to do.  I am sorry for what I sounded like and do ask for forgiveness from the poster and any females who are going with him.  I do not like the policing of the forum and I did not want to become one.

sunbum47's picture

That was very nice

Thank you for being so considerate as to apologize. We are fine please read my post embedded in another post in blue. The site has become a forum for rude exchages and the attempt to impose ones beliefs on others and that truly goes against the Gunny atmosphere, where people relax san, the need to impress with fashion. I really appreciate your post and as I said b4, all is good in the Universe.... ok maybe a bit too ambitious. Let's say between you and I. Big smile Wink Tongue

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

Thank you

Don't mean to start a continuous chain of thank yous, but thank you for thanking me.  You restore my faith in human (only a slight exaggeration) that we should always look at the best of all.  You did so with the original poster and you did so with me.  It would have been nice to meet you and the original poster to say my sorries in person, but alas I cannot make it this weekend.

LivingLife1968's picture

Wow that was taking the wrong

Wow that was taking the wrong way but guess one can take it the wrong way. I go plenty of times alone willing to hang out with couples females and even males. One that useually post looking to hang with a female is just that not interested in hanging with anyone else.

I will say this have met plenty of single guys when I'm with my girl but the times I'm alone they would not say a word to me. Other times I met single guys that we can hang with together or alone. This I questions ones motives. If we were looking to swing who would we want to join us? Well tell u this it would not be that guy just looking to talk to her when we are together. Not would that be anyone either one of us would hang out with. Not that we are looking to swing. Just saying.

No tan lines for 20 years

sunbum47's picture

Understood

Wow that was taking the wrong way but guess one can take it the wrong way. I agree that I could have taken your comments the wrong way and I am not looking for a fight; too much of that bickering  on the site already   I go plenty of times alone willing to hang out with couples females and even males. One that useually post looking to hang with a female is just that not interested in hanging with anyone else. Possibly but not necessarily. Some guys are worried about being labeled gay or perv so "tradition" says be with a woman. That to me is silly caus eI do not care what people think about me or my guy. My guy likes to walk and gets into many conversatios on the south end, which some have labeled the gay side. We need to get away from labels and assumptions. This can be nothing more than a comfort zone, or an attempt to meet a woman; why should it matter. I go alone a lot and have dismissed some inappropriate guys and have invited some guys to hang out with me. I have had much more positive than negative interactions while there alone. Many of the guys I have met alone now hang with me and my guy when we are at the beach together.

I will say this have met plenty of single guys when I'm with my girl but the times I'm alone they would not say a word to me. Once again, some guys may think their intentions are misunderstood.  It could be exactly how you see it, but the playing field is not even if we make preconceived judgements about motive. I like to wait until I can say with some degree of certainty that the person is wrong. Other times I met single guys that we can hang with together or alone. This I questions ones motives. If we were looking to swing who would we want to join us? I saw no reference to wanting to swing in the invitation.   Well tell u this it would not be that guy just looking to talk to her when we are together. In that instance, I agree, I will not entertain any guy who approaches me when my guy walks away. That , to me is different from an open invitation from a guy to hand with a woman.Not would that be anyone either one of us would hang out with. Not that we are looking to swing. Just saying. As I said earlier, I am not looking to fight or be the moral compass or conscious of anyone. I do think that way too may folks on the site have taken to public attacks prematurely for , just as you feel I did; misunderstood posts. I am jumping off of my soapbox. I just don't want my guy looked at suspiciously if he is on the beach alone.

No tan lines for 20 years 

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

Sounds like he did find a

Sounds like he did find a female willing to hang with him in the beach!!. Nothing more!...Everyone needs to Chill

sunbum47's picture

Why

I have remained off of the site because of the comments attacking posts that some members publish. Someone asked for a female to hang out with on a beach sometimes unfriendly to single men. Some jump to the conclusion that the intent is nefarious. That is a conclusion based on very limited information.Anicdotal incidents where "it usually goes bad" cannot be based on impetical data unless a legitimate survey with appropriate sample. Not that it should matter but I am an established professional, in a high demand career. I make decisions and evalaute critical situations daily. If I make a decision to hang out with someone who only asked for a beach companion, it it my and my guy's decision to make without the intrusive supposition of others. Feel free to comment but there is nothing that can be offered except opinion. Please dont state personalnfeelings as fact unless you can back it up with real, relevant evidence. Single guys out there, enjoy the beach and site as anyone else would.

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

Sorry

I just wanted also to say sorry to you along with original poster.  I did not mean to sound like forum police but sometime you write something before you regret saying it.  I just wanted to advise the poster that it would have been nicer to explain why a female would be a nicer companion though he does not have to and that is what I meant to say but it came out way wrong.

You go girl.!!!..sooo glad

You go girl.!!!..sooo glad your back and feisty!!..your soo right.....

sunbum47's picture

Appreciated

Thank you. There was no reference to "Needing a female" to hang at the beach. It was a simple invitation with two reasonable courses of action; explore the invitation or ignore it. There was nothing implicitely improper with putting the invitation out there. When one interprets the invitation as a need for date, that is a huge leap and changes the tenor of the post. I will take someone on face value and try not to interject my bias, unless or until the situation dictates. For me, having someone to hang with on the beach, since my guy cannot make it, is great

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

Wrong way

If you are a guy, it generally turns out wrong if you START with "I need a female to go with."  You will be able to share a ride if you actually get to know them.  Whether it is a friend in real life or one you make in forum, it does help to know and talk before you ask to share a ride.  An if age, status, race does not matter, why should gender matter unless you are looking for a date and if that is not the case, you should explain a little.

sunbum47's picture

perhaps

Hi,

I was gonna go this weekend with my guy but he now has to work. I do visit often alone because of our schdeules. I I am positive, I would be happy to meet and likely hang out with you. Sunday is the more likely day for me. If I can arrange it, I will message you. Looking forward to the beach for the final time this season. Always nice to meet new people, even single men.

Some say my lips are big..... so true. Lol

Sunday?

Wife and I might make Sunday Also

LivingLife1968's picture

Not going to find a female

Not going to find a female here to go with and if that's what your looking for try a nudest dating site or bring a female friend most females on the beach don't want to be bothers by a single male. Good luck and enjoy.

No tan lines for 20 years

Ever found a legitimate

Ever found a legitimate nudist dating site? 

Thanks everybody for answers.

Thanks everybody for answers. Now I explain few things. (I didn't read everything exactly, because my English is not to well) I am married, and not looking a date, romance or something like this, I wrote female with caps because I have some male friends which can I take with me, but not female. One more thing, I know there are better sites to looking sex etc.

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